Friday, May 20, 2011

Making Babies review

Many months (Ok, let's be real here, years!) before we started TTC I read several pregnancy books. While I'm happy that I'm already so well informed regarding, well, What to Expect, I did not do any fertility reading before TTC. My philosophy: if approximately 20 percent of couples face fertility issues, the odds were good that we would not and I would get pregnant the first month of trying, just like my mom did with all her pregnancies.

In retrospect, I obviously wished I had read several fertility-related books in the early stages of TTC, or even before we started TTC. I've read a couple PCOS TTC books, but whenever I would go to the bookstore to peruse the shelves I was always disappointed by the regular books about TTC. They are seemed rather simple. I needed something more in between books about IVF and books about the basics of getting pregnant. That's why I was thrilled to find Making Babies. It's written by a reproductive endocrinologist and a licensed acupuncturist, so it takes a balanced approach between Eastern and Western medicine. It leans more toward the side of avoiding expensive and invasive fertility treatments for as long as possible, which appeals to me.

It's almost time for me to return this book to the library (after I renewed it!) so I thought it was about time I shared these insights from the book before I lose them forever.

The book captured my experience from the beginning of the introduction, on page ix, where the authors write:
You want to do everything you can, but you want to be smart about it. You don't want to rush into expensive treatments with their inherent risks and side effects. You don't want to waste your time any more than you want to waste your money. You don't want to be guided by unproven old wives' tales, but you don't want to dismiss something that might work either. Truth be told, you'd try just about anything if it meant having a baby.

OK, that's me, this book is made for me.

As I kept reading, I used pink and yellow Post It flags. Yellow is for general fertility; pink is for PCOS fertility. Here's what I came up with.

Yellow general fertility flags:
  • Self massage: The acupuncturist recommends self massage techniques in four stages to encourage the repositioning of the uterus to increase blood flow: menstruation, pre-ovulation, ovulation, and potential implantation. I have not tested these out, but the techniques sound simple and appealing (92-97).
  • Beta-carotene: "The corpus luteum, which helps produce progesterone necessary to sustain a pregnancy, has very high levels of beta-carotene. Research shows that cows deprived of beta-carotene develop ovarian cysts and are slow to ovulate, and their fellow mammals -- humans -- work much the same way. You get beta-carotene in your diet from yellow and orange foods (including carrots, cantaloupe, and sweet potatoes), as well as from broccoli and leafy greens such as spinach" (102-103).
  • Omega-3s: "Omega-3 fatty acids have a broad range of benefits, including increasing blood flow to the uterus, thereby increasing the chances of implantation and pregnancy. They also fight inflammation and can soothe menstrual pain and help with other problems that can interfere with conception. Increased blood flow also benefits the placenta, supporting optimum growth of a fetus and ultimately reducing the risks of premature birth and low birth weight" (105).
  • Tea: "Women who drank tea every day [in a Kaiser Permanente study of 210 women] -- even just half a cup -- were twice as likely to conceive as women who never drank tea....Scientists suggest that tea might promote fertility in two ways. First, the hypoxanthine in tea might be necessary for the follicular fluid that helps eggs mature and get ready for fertilization. Second, powerful antioxidant polyphenols in tea might help prevent chromosomal abnormalities that can cause an embryo to miscarry or fail to implant...The study did not get into what kind of tea the women drank, but we recommend green tea to our patients. Green tea has up to ten time more polyphenols than black tea and only about half the caffeine. Three cups of green tea a day will keep you within our caffeine guidelines" (109).
  • Eating through your cycle: Menstruation = foods rich in iron, vitamin C, protein. Pre-ovulation = protein, foods rich in vitamin E. Ovulation = B vitamins, zinc, vitamin C. Potential implantation = pineapple (or pineapple core, which has the most bromelain and helps with implantation), eat warming foods and avoid cold foods (111-112).
  • Essential Fatty Acids (EFAs): "This is the most important supplement after the prenatal multivitamin. Ideally, women should take EFAs for at least three months before they conceive to allow time for them to be fully incorporated into all the tissues. EFAs help ensure that follicles have all the resources they need. They are key to cell membranes and growth in the ovaries. They help form body tissue, including tissue in eggs and in a developing fetus, and are essential for brain development in the fetus. Fish oils, a prime source of EFAs, are natural clot busters and so may be particularly useful to anyone who has had recurrent miscarriages" (125).
  • Prenatal vitamin content recommendations and other fertility supplements recommendations for women handy-dandy chart on pages 132-133.
  • What's your fertility type??? The authors believe women facing fertility issues fall into one of five types: tired, dry, stuck, pale, waterlogged. If you want to find out your type, you can answer questions in the book, or, in my opinion it's much easier to take the online quiz at www.makingbabies.com. If you take the online quiz, the authors recommend you still read through the five descriptions in the book to see what makes the most sense for you.
  • Finding an acupuncturist: The National Certification Commission for Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine "tests practitioners to ensure they are knowledgeable about Chinese medicine and appropriate sterile technique" (287).


Pink PCOS fertility flags:
  • Trans fats: Even though I think most of us have eliminated trans fats from our diets, here's further reason to do so: "Eliminate trans fats altogether, because, among other things, they can cause of exacerbate insulin resistance and ovulatory dysfunction and interfere with hormone production and balance. There is no safe level of trans fats in your diet. Eliminating trans fats is crucial for women with PCOS" (104).
  • Unsaturated fats: "Unsaturated fats are the way to go: olive oil, nuts and seeds (and their oils), and avocados are the most nutritious sources. These are important for everyone, especially women with PCOS" (105).
  • Vitamin-D deficiency: "Vitamin D is an antioxidant, so it helps protect sperm and eggs against genetic damage. Vitamin D also supports the production of estrogen. In some cases, bumping up vitamin D intake to adequate level can restore ovulation in women with PCOS" (119).
  • NAC: "Take N-acetyl cysteine (NAC) supplements to help reduce circulating testosterone, cholesterol, plasma triglycerides, low-density lipoproteins, and insulin. NAC included in a multivitamin is fine. Nutrient 950 with NAC by Pure Encapsulations is also good" (207).
  • Three-month plan: The authors recommend treatment (diet, 30 minutes of exercise daily, stress management, supplements) for three months before trying to conceive. "Follicles exposed to excess androgens will be of poor quality and lead to a higher risk of miscarriage" (207).
  • Give up yams?!: OK, I eat yams at least once a week (not even sweet potatoes, even though I always call them sweet potatoes, we're actually big yam eaters). "Although yams are often touted as fertility boosters, they have too many carbs for PCOS bodies" (315).
  • Clomid: "For patients with PCOS who have high or high normal levels of male hormones, I prescribe dexamethasone, too, to enhance the effectiveness of the clomiphene by suppressing the production of male hormones" (321).
 For me, these were the highlights. Because I'd already done a decent amount of fertility reading by the time I read Making Babies, it wasn't as revelationary as it would have been had I read this three months before starting TTC. In retrospect, I wish I had read this in April 2010, three months before we started TTC, rather than April 2011. Oh well, now I know! At least it's reassuring that all my other research revealed a lot of the information I found in this book. This book is just a good one-stop shop for fertility info, and I wish I had started here!

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Amazing Google commercial

It would be weird to post this on my public blog, so I thought I would post it on my private blog. I saw this commercial for the first time a couple nights ago (thanks to the DVR I hardly ever see commercials, but I somehow managed to sneak a peak at this one). I can't watch it without crying. It is just so sweet.

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Progress!

Last month I said that if I could get a positive OPK on CD35 that would be amazing. Well folks, it actually happened. I am taking a break from my normal morning routine to report this positive progress. Maybe exercise, vitamins, diet and a (slightly more) positive attitude is helping.

I AM SO EXCITED. THIS IS THE BEST THING THAT HAS HAPPENED TO ME IN A LONG TIME!

In other news, I started taking a bunch of herbal supplements last weekend. And that will be the subject of a future post.

Monday, April 4, 2011

Cheating

This week I thought a miracle was happening. On CD21 and 22, I got OPKs that were so close to positive that I nearly borrowed a plane so I could write a celebratory message in the sky.

But the OPKs never turned positive. I was silently willing them positive with all my being, but I got nothing but a really clearly negative the following days, and my temps did not change to indicate any sort of ovulation that the OPKs may have missed, so I am pretty certain nothing happened and nothing is currently going on.

Even though a CD21 or 22 ovulation would be highly unlikely for me to the point that it's the stuff of out-of-this-world fiction, I was still disappointed. I want so desperately to be normal that I'll believe in miracles.

So, this weekend I went wild. Friday night I had a glass of red wine and about five crackers. Saturday I had half a cookie and a salad with croutons. (Of course I ate more than this; just trying to highlight my decadent sinning.) They were divine. Although I've never been a huge bread/general glutten product eater, these little breaks from my strict diet were an awesome indulgence.

Now, though, I'm back to the straight and narrow, and I'm trying to keep the optimism alive.

Sunday, March 20, 2011

Eggs for eggs

Ironically, this past year I have finally gotten really good about having a full breakfast every morning, and at the center of that breakfast has been cereal and milk. I grew up absolutely hating milk, so adding it to my cereal has been a big move. Now that I am finally into a routine of getting up even earlier than I used to and having cereal, milk, fruit, orange juice and usually tea/coffee/hot chocolate, I have to adjust again. Cereal doesn't keep with the gluten-free diet I am trying to keep. So, I am learning to love eggs.

When you cut out bread and cereal, that really reduces the number of breakfast foods you can eat. It basically leaves eggs, meat and fruit. So, I am still eating the blueberries I started adding to my cereal, just sans cereal, and I am still drinking my hot chocolate, just with whole milk rather than skim milk, and now I am trying to give myself a few more minutes each morning to scramble up a couple eggs. If we have any bacon in the house, which we sometimes do, depending on our dinner menu for the week, I might make a couple strips of bacon as well.

To keep up the protein kick, I am also eating almonds and walnuts as part of my daily lunch. These aren't my favorites, but they're good for me and they keep me from snacking on something gluten-filled that I really like, such as Cheez-Itz, which ultimately have limited if any nutritional value.

Finally, although my husband and I have become what I would call flexitarians -- we've been known to eliminate meat from about two or three meals a week -- I've moved us back to having meat with every dinner we make. I am even trying to get him to add a little more red meat to our diet, no more than once a week.

It's hard to go against conventional wisdom, it's hard to give up pasta and pizza and alcohol, but my digestive system is thanking me (it's in GREAT shape these days -- sorry for the TMI, but it's worth noting). So, I hope that the more seriously I stick to my new food habits, the more my body will start to change soon.

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

A vitamin store in my bedside table

After doing some more independent research, I officially decided to up my vitamin intake this week. Even though the prenatal vitamin that I've been taking for a year claims to give me 100 percent of everything I could need for baby-making purposes, I've read enough/heard enough about other people's experiences with pregnancy and vitamins that I figure more of a good thing can't be bad. (Yes, I realize this is sort of a self-diagnosis, but you don't exactly need a prescription for vitamins.)

So, now in addition to my prenatal vitamin, I am also taking separate helpings of vitamin B6, B12, D and E. For what it's worth, my regular physician actually encouraged me to take more vitamin D at my appointment last year. I did not heed her advice because it was 1) generic advice that she gives everyone because she believes everyone in modern America is vitamin D deficient (her words) and 2) the appointment was in the summer when I was always in the sun, so I figured this didn't apply to me.

As my period got started last week I also promised myself that I would exercise daily. So far, so good. It's becoming a bit of a game for me, a competition with myself in a way, to see if I can keep up with this routine. I'm doing a combination of long walks with the dogs and my husband (and even a buddy of mine who wants to join me in my efforts to get more exercise! Hooray for healthy girl time!), as well as 30-minutes of aerobics each day with 30-minutes of strength exercise a few days a week.

I've also decided with the start of this new cycle to entirely stop drinking caffeine and alcohol. Although I drank both in total moderation (aside from one party I was at in January when I was getting my period and decided to drink rather heavily), I figure I can make the sacrifice. So, that one cup of coffee I drank about three times a week is no more, and I am not drinking any soda (though I did that rarely if ever). I had my last alcoholic drink at my friend's birthday party last weekend, and I'm happy to give that up entirely now as well.

Finally, I am going to give the gluten-free diet a shot. I bought a book about going gluten-free over the weekend. Although it's geared toward people with Celiac's disease (because those are the main people who would purchase such a book) I think I can make it work for me. This means giving up pizza, which my husband and I would probably eat once a week or every other week (almost always homemade on the grill) and whole-wheat pasta we would also eat with the same regularity. I think it would be nearly impossible to be entirely gluten-free, seeing as gluten exists in incredibly small amounts in products even such as soy sauce, I am at least going to cut down all bread, pasta, and cracker products (as well as beer, which falls in both the gluten and alcohol categories).

Oh, and because several studies suggest it is good for fertility, I am now drinking whole milk. Yes, whole milk. After a childhood spent with 2% milk, I learned to love skim as a teenager, and now I am going hardcore all the way past 2% to whole. I wouldn't pick whole milk, but I'll try anything.

I plan to keep this up at least until July. If I don't see improvements in my ovulation dates within four months then I probably won't see any changes from these lifestyle choices after that. By July we will have been trying for one year officially. Seeing as how I ovulated last cycle on CD39, I am really hopeful at this moment that I can bring that ovulation date down even further. CD35 would be amazing, CD30 would be absolutely divine.

Thursday, March 10, 2011

CD1

And so it begins, again. With the start of today's period came one more little punch in the gut from Mother Nature, another reminder that I am still not pregnant. As we approach April, we'll be entering month nine of trying. In the amount of time we've been trying, we could have a baby by now.

I know there are women out there who have been trying for four years or more. My heart breaks for them. I don't know how they go through this for so long. I'm not even at the year mark and I'm starting to find the ups and downs of all this mildly unbearable.

Because I'm attempting to be more optimistic (when the spirit moves me) I thought it was relevant to share the stats of my most recent three cycles:

2 cycles ago --
O'ed on CD70
Luteal phase: 7 days
Total length: 77 days

Last cycle --
O'ed on CD53
Luteal phase: 12 days
Total length: 65 days

The cycle I just ended today --
O'ed on CD 39 (!!!!)
Luteal phase: 11 days
Total length: 50 days

I am happy that the two most recent cycles I've ovulated earlier than I did the previous round. Also, I am happy that after one cycle with a short luteal phase (that would be too short to sustain a pregnancy) I have at least got my luteal phase up to a normal length.

I am going to exercise every single day. This is my new promise to myself (starting tomorrow). I think my increased exercise regiment is what I can thank for my earlier ovulation dates. I'm also going to reevaluate my vitamins and probably start taking more as well as looking into my diet more, even considering a gluten-free diet. At this point, I feel like I'm getting desperate, and I'm willing to try anything within reason.